For example: You say, "Brad, do you like Sarah? Kind of got that vibe at the party the other night." He says, "Babe, you know your friend Sarah and I are just friends - I love you, we're good, you're amazing." * Brad then likes all of Sarah's photos on Instagram and follows her on Facebook.* You say: "Really, then why are you liking all of Sarah's photos on Insta?" He replies, "Babe, stop being crazy. Basically, if you start to feel crazy for no reason, consider it a red flag. This is otherwise known as manipulation, which, if you've ever been in a relationship where this is an issue, gear up for a year of therapy to get you back to a good place. He knows you too well - so he knows how to build you up and break you down. Maybe girls say more than you via text, but do you know how much it would mean to your chick if you wrote a complete sentence back to her, acknowledging the agony that went into the novella she wrote you? Let it be known that writing back one-word answers to a full or multi-sentence text is annoying AF - and you'll most likely hear about it at some point in the near future.Ħ. You text him a somewhat lengthy text (that you mulled over and asked five friends if you should send, which they told you not to send, but you did it anyway), and then your guy responds with "K," "Cool," or doesn't reply at all. So, really, there are no excuses for lack of response. No, literally, where did you go? I know you have your phone in your left hand even when you're holding your member with your right as you pee, or you sleep with it under your pillow (which, turns out, is super-dangerous). He texts you nonstop for a week, but then falls off the map. But continue to only text her and she's going to break/freakout/"have a talk" with you about it - the three words no one wants to hear. You have no idea how happy it will make her, and also, if you actually like her, then you'll probably want to hear voice. I get that this isn't the '50s and there are other modes of communication, but for Pete's sake, guys, pick up the phone and call a girl. It most likely isn't going to work long-term.Ģ. And let me tell you, if a guy isn't ready, it doesn't matter how perfect of a person you are. Cut to you feeling like you did something wrong, but let me assure you: You probably did nothing wrong, he probably just wasn't ready. What happened here was the guy was in what seemed to be hot pursuit of you and then clearly saw something/someone else that he found appealing/sparkly/noncommittal/whatever, and his relationship ADD kicked in. You meet, he feels some type of way and wants to hang all the time, and then all of a sudden, he flips the switch, and now you're being "needy." Um, hi, what? I'm sorry, but no. But they choose not to acknowledge that and, instead, label the ladies as "crazy" even though they're the ones being unreasonable. Here, 16 things a man might do that cause a reaction that makes a woman seem bat-shit cray.ġ. Dudes have a tendency to be, what I like to refer to as, crazy-making. I'm gonna be real RN: I have zero doubt that you and I have both been labeled "crazy" by someone we've dated in the past.
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